The following is an open letter to Rosalind, who, despite having said she had no more to say to me, continues to leave comments in my blog, proving herself to be as addicted to my abuse as her ex-fiancee is. It was originally intended as a response in the comments section of another post, but it taps into a subject I feel strongly enough about to put it to a wider audience. I realize this isn’t what most of my visitors come to see, but bare with me, pets, Mistress has some business to attend to. I’ll be back to tormenting you tomorrow, dearies.
In defense of “phone whores.”
Rosalind, tut tut, where are your manners? To repeatedly come to a person’s website with the intent of being insulting is tantamount to returning to their home to spew venom at them. No matter, I understand why you would be dissatisfied with your life, and I’ll pay the cost of the band-width for you to rage because I find you amusing.
I’m not a phone whore, I’m a phone, and face to face Domme. It’s a distinction your ex understood perfectly when he sought my services, I assure you. Still, despite your intention, I take no offense from being called a phone whore.
I know many phone sex operators and understand the truth of the matter, that they are your neighbors and your coworkers, your friends and your family members. Many struggle with money and find it a fun part time job to help make ends meet. Some enjoy it enough and make enough money at it to drop their mainstream jobs in favor of it. I know lawyers and psychiatrists who’ve decided they prefer working at home, doing phone sex to working in an office doing more mundane work.
Every once in a while, a phone sex operator is someone who is disabled and has trouble finding work because of it, but they don’t wish to rely upon public assistance. Working as a fantasy artist levels the field for them a bit.
It’s a tough job, tapping into the head’s of people who don’t always want to reveal their fantasies, but expect the professional to know anyway. To make it, phone sex operators must be perceptive, quick witted, diplomatic, and appealing to a variety of tastes. They must not only be every man’s fantasy, they must be able to determine, with very little information, what that fantasy is.
Sadly, for all their intelligence, their wit, their charm, and their work ethic, they are still met with scorn and derision from embittered people who couldn’t do their job.
And though you’re mistaken about my very comfortable income, you’re correct about one thing, I don’t pay a typist. I have submissive little pets like your ex, who like to do things for me.
Now, though you are no more able to stay away from me than your husband, I’ve treated you to enough free humiliation. If you wish to be berated further, you’ll have to call and pay, just like Barry does. Unlike yourself, I have the self-control to ignore you. Rage away, further comments will not receive response from me.
I wish you better luck in your future relationships. If you’d like advice on how to keep, and keep control of, a man.. call me.
Mistress Shayna.. Honorary Phone Whore.
OK, so I’ve got the little bitch-boi on a Niteflirt call, in her little pink nightie, she’s got the dildo in her ass.. the BIG one, and she’s repeating again and again, in that raspy breath “I’m a sissy, and I’m going to cum in my panties.. I’m just a girl and I’m rubbing my little pussy in my sissy pink panties. I’m a girl, I’m a girl and I need to be fucked in my pink panties.”
This person has called often and repeatedly… always the same pink nightie and increasingly large dildoes stretching her sissy-hole. Soooooooooooo…. because I am a sissy-pimp… and because prepping little bitches to be used by real men is what I do…… I tell the little cocklet lover that I have a guy with a warm, fat cock coming over to fill her face and boy-pussy full of cum.
Suddenly, this person, whom I’ve only ever heard with the most sissified of voices, drops character, butches up, and says in a manly, gruff voice “Hey.. I’m no faggot.”
…… My apologies, sissy.. I misunderstood by the throbbing dick between your legs, as you talked about how much you love your toy cock and love having a pussy to fuck, that you might actually like the real thing.
Oh… and now that the apology is out of the way… shut the fuck up and swallow his cock like I told you.
Tags: Sissy Phone Sex, sissy pimp
Posted by Shayna on Nov 23, 2009 in
Humiliation,
losers Every once in a while, I can’t help but take pity on poor, pathetic losers who come seeking my attention without having the means to pay for it. My normal method is to tell them to call if they would like to speak with me, knowing they can not afford me, and sending the message that I will be neither engaging nor abusive, until I’ve been paid.
But sometimes, just sometimes, I feel playful enough to humiliate them for seeking my attention. The following is the log of a conversation from a loser who’s been sniffing around for the past month or so. Yesterday I decided to give him some freebie humiliation for being a loser.
The name has been changed to keep him from enjoying a public outing.
Enjoy.
Broke Loser
hi there
12:31pmShayna
Hello
12:32pmBroke Loser
how r u?
12:33pmShayna
it’s always good to be me, Broke Loser
12:33pmBroke Loser
yummy
love the attitude
12:34pmShayna
many to, that’s why I’m so well paid.
*do
12:34pmBroke Loser
lucky you “(
I am poor
12:34pmShayna
heh
12:34pmBroke Loser
give me some of what you get
12:35pmShayna
You haven’t got what it takes .. how about I just turn you into a whore instead?
12:36pmBroke Loser
as you want me to be Mistres
Mistrss*
12:37pmShayna
ok.. go to www.niteflirt.com and sign up for an account to start sucking virtual cock.. come looking for my attention again once you’ve made some money to give me
2:26pmBroke Loser
hi there
couldn’t talk at niteflisrt
my country is not uncluded
2:30pmBroke Loser
oh domina
come on
no harm from a flirt chat
2:59pmBroke Loser
3:00pmShayna
no harm in a flirty chat with someone who doesn’t charge for her attention.. you keep coming to me hoping I’ll give you assignments, tell you what to do, and get your little dick hard with my attention as I tell you how you can suck my boyfriend’s cock… all that is what I do for a living. Go ask your lawyer to give you free advice on how to handle your legal issues and call it “just a chat” and see how far it gets you.
3:02pmBroke Loser
sorry Miss
I am so poor
see you
bye
bye
3:04pmShayna
then do something to fix it.. do not come wasting a Domina‘s time, hoping for crumbs because you can not afford to pay her. … my attention is a luxury item.
3:04pmBroke Loser
indeed
will come back to you if it got fixed
bye for now
3:04pmShayna
good by for now then
3:05pmBroke Loser
::out from her life on his knees like a dog::
I’ve been crazy busy this past week.. I have more sissy pictures to upload to the sissy gallery. After all these years, sissy Jessica will be “coming out” in my gallery.. no more burred faces or images cropped to hide her identity. Look for her later this week.
I also have Sissy-in-a-cage, Shelley to show you. I love her latex.
I have little-dicked bitches to check up on over at www.ratemypindick.com and I have a picture of faggot John sucking a cock I really *must* sent off to his wife for him… but this will all have to wait. Right now, I’m off to torment a pony-boy who simply adores my spurs.
In the mean time, enjoy this transcript of some freebie humiliation I gave to a little loser who hasn’t a clue but somehow managed to find me on my messenger.
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”: hi
shayna_domina : hello
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”: on ur cam pls
shayna_domina : heh why?
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”: i wanna see u ok
shayna_domina : lol why?
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”: bc i dont wanna speakin to a ghost
shayna_domina : lots of people want to see me, but I’m not a performing monkey… and I don’t come when I’m summoned
shayna_domina: I don’t know what kind of sweet little things do as you ask, simply because you ask it, but I’m definitely not one of them
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”: on ur cam pls if u are not a player
shayna_domina : you contacted me.. I don’t give a fuck if you think I’m a player or not.. I’m a Dominatrix.. I don’t do anyone’s bidding. If you want to know what I look like, go visit my website, there’s a picture there.. if you want to see me perform for you.. you can wait in a very long line
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”: my friend i hv u ok
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”: bt be nice ok
shayna_domina : be nice? You have seriously misunderstood who you’ve contacted.. I’m not nice.. I’m a bitch by trade.. and I really don’t care what some stranger half way across the world thinks of me because I won’t jump at his command.. while you’re telling people to be nice, why don’t you think about your own behavior in trying to push and insult a stranger into getting on cam when she politely said “no”
shayna_domina : I hope to god other women you try that shit on have enough dignity to tell you where to go
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”is typing a message.
Loser whose name I’ve changed to “Loser”: well ur profile on facebook said u are in portland n u told me u re in us so i saw u as a lier
shayna_domina : oh wow..
shayna_domina : Portland is a city in the US
shayna_domina : and you said you’re in the “Country” of London.. but didn’t know the county right next to you… so.. why don’t you buy a globe, and try again
shayna_domina : ok.. Seriously. do you not know what a Dominatrix is? Or are you just acting this dumb so I’ll humiliate you for free?
shayna_domina : ….. take your time, look up the big words before you say anything more. That’s what Wikipedia is for, dear.
shayna_domina : I’m a Dominatrix.. it means I’m paid to cause men pain and humiliation for a very comfortable living.. consider this a freebie. And feel free to comment on my facebook page about what a bitch I am to you.. I love word of mouth advertising
shayna_domina : good bye, loser
Tags: sissy gallery
Posted by Shayna on Apr 29, 2009 in
Kink News,
losers Time for your current events lesson, bitches.
This article came to me by way of the network of Dommes I know and love. It’s an article about a man who tried to rob a beauty salon and was kept as a plaything of the hairdresser. It reads more like a subbie‘s fantasy than actual news, but The Moscow Times reports it as true.
http://www.themoscowtimes.com/article/1292/42/376242.htm
Happy reading!
Posted by Shayna on Apr 27, 2009 in
Pissed Mistress,
losers Be prepared when you speak with me to answer this simple question. “How are you prepared to please?”
It’s not a trick question but I’m not merely asking what qualifies you to be a servant, slave, submissive, disciple, or pet. I’m asking what you hope for and expect out of a session with me.
I ask because there are as many ways to submit as there are submissives, and then some. Each person brings something new to the table. I treat no two submissives in exactly the same way, because each is an individual and each has different desires, uses, and weaknesses.
Every once in a while, I get a call from someone who, for one reason or another, doesn’t want to tell me what it is he’s looking for in Ds. Either through a sense of shyness, or simple mule headedness, he hoardes his fantasies, expecting the Mistress to know how to control him without offering him having to make any confessions.
Such behavior is inexcusably ignorant. I am not a psychic. I’ve said before, each pet keeps the handle to their proverbial leash in a different part of their psyche. The fun is in finding it and giving a little yank. Clearly, there is no way for a Mistress to know, from the moment she answers the phone, what secrets lie in a submissive’s heart if he is unwilling to tell her.
I just got off the phone with a silly little tart who, within one minute had refused to tell me what interests he was calling to pursue, except to say he had served a Mistress before and wanted to “try something new.” When it was pointed out to him that I could hardly know what was new to him if he refused to tell me what he’d done before, he said “no Mistress has ever been strong enough to get me to..” and then he ended the call.
I understand that sometimes, the appeal of submission is the ability to surrender control and with it, the sense of responsibility. But there really is one thing you have to be responsible for. If you are fighting your submission to the point you refuse to admit by word or by gesture, what you want, it is not the Mistress who is not strong enough. Until you can claim some responsibility in bringing on your own pleasure, you’ll never find the exquisite release you’re hoping for. And you’ll waste not only your own time, but the Mistresses you pester with your unrealistic and unreasonable expectations.
